未来妻子（续）

牛郎阿飞 · 发表于 2010-1-26 22:58:36

什么是幸福的人生呢？应该就是“守着自己喜欢的人，做自己喜欢的事业”吧。爱情就像一个盒子，我们就叫它“月光宝盒”吧，需要两个人向里面放东西，里面的东西丰富了，你才能够从里面取你喜欢的东西。只知道取不知道放，这个盒子早晚会空的！

What is the happiness life? The answer is to accompany a girl who you love and to do the business you like. Love likes a box, we can call it “moonlight box ” here, it needs we to put something into, it will be full of many good things, then you can get what you want from it. If you only want to get but forget to put something into it, it will be empty sooner or later.

近来看了翟鸿燊教授的视频讲座，感觉工作又注入了激情。一个人的思想格局决定他将来的成就，格局很小的人，每天都会被生活中、工作中的“小事”所累，心烦的时候就难免说一些抱怨的话，遇到困难就难免说一些丧气的话，遇到矛盾冲突的时候就会说一些伤人的话，进而把你的形象、你的威信给降低了，你办事能力也会在你的抱怨中减退！

Recently, I saw the video class of professor Zhai hongshen on line, my work is
full of passion again. The bigger the structure of thinking is, the bigger your future business is. If you only have a small structure of thinking, you will be fed up with many small things in life and work, maybe you will keep griping; you will hurt somebody when you are in trouble, those will make your effect cut down, your capability will be some decrease in griping.

一个人的哲学思想体系决定你的格局的大小。

Your philosophy will decide how far your thinking is.

最近工作努力了，学习耽误了。每天学英语的时间少，累的时候就不想学，不想学时看书效果极差。还是自己的时间安排的不好吧，怪不得工作，也怪不得他人。每天没有进步心里都急，急也没用。现在的处境是你两年前的努力决定的，现在的努力决定你两年后的处境。真理！

I worked hard lately, but don’t study English hard. The time I study is less and less, I don’t want to read when I am tired after work. At the moment, the reading efficiency is too bed. I can’t arrange my time well, it’s not work and others fault, it’s my fault. I am all of a sweat if I make no progress, but it won’t help me anymore. Your place is decided by the effort you do 2 year before, now your effort will decide your future place 2 ago. True!

人到啥年龄就要办啥事儿，应该是这样吧。要不怎么会说“男大当婚，女大当嫁”呢？结婚是一件有意思的事情，你想想：女孩子离开了自己生活的20多年的地方和亲人，因为你，来到一个全新的环境，要处理全新的人际关系，要适应新的水土。着实有点不容易吧？幸福在后面，万事开头难。

As your age is getting old, you have to think about traditional thing. Such as marriage, everyone will get it. Marriage is interested , you see: a girl will leave her hometown where her have life for 20 more years and then arrive a new environment to live with you, her have to get long with new relation. It is really not easy for a girl? The fist step to happiness is difficult.

那就跟你约法三章吧：

　　　　　　　我们的宗旨是以和为贵；

我们的目标是白头偕老；

我们的方法是心心相印。

　　　　　　　Let set up three promises together:

　　　　　　　Our tenet is friendship;

　　　　　　　Our aim is life together happily;

　　　　　　　Our means is to consider each other first